Posted by Giget on June 17, 2003, at 7:16:25
In reply to Re: I'm scared, please help » Emme, posted by wendy b. on June 17, 2003, at 7:05:46
Kara,
I hope you are feeling better today. It is going to take a while, but take it hour by hour.It was wronge of him to take your insurcurities and put them against you. It does not matter that you listened on the phone, the fact is you heard what he felt of you. We look to these people to be our support, to be someone we are so close to that you can tell anything. You tell them your fears, hopes, dreams and faults.
It is completely arrigant for him to talk to you that way. I am sure you can pick him apart and just do things to hurt him, but you are a better person. You take what he said to you about himself personally and would not hurt him by it. Yes we all have times we get angry and say things we did not mean, but this is over that limit, to be talking to someone else about it!
I had a wonderful session with my therpist last night.... but that is another thread....
Take some time to do something for yourself... get a pedicure, take a walk to your favoirte spot, meditaton... anything that will make you smile, and realize you are a good person. Everyone has flaws... that is life.
Take care, and email if you need anything!
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