Posted by NikkiT2 on December 13, 2002, at 16:38:02
In reply to Re: Guilt--Wendy, posted by ROO on December 13, 2002, at 13:03:35
"When is telling friends how you are feeling going over into the line of being
manipulative? I wanna know because I don't want to be manipulative"It felt manipulative when I was threatened with her suicide.. when i felt if I didn;t do x or y, then she would do it, and I would be to blame. When the pressure of whethr she lived or died was on MY head... I felt manipulated then...
Hope this helps... I am terrified of making someone feel like that, that is probably the main reason why I can't call out when I am suicidal.
Nikki
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thread:33265
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