Posted by Fivefires on September 4, 2008, at 13:09:22
In reply to Re: How he can flip the switch:SUSAN47, posted by Just Me33 on September 4, 2008, at 9:53:59
Someone told me once that I get so into the guy I'm with, I become like a tiny bird in their hand, which they can either be kind to or crush.
Jeez .. I'm prob' a lot older than you guys, but somehow you begin to see you are 'very much an individual and for this you feel proud of yourself'.
I've looked back at situations like this I've been in, and here I am in another one, and ya' know what? I'm 'picky'.
Yes, I am. And, I 'give' a lot, and I guess it's not really right TO EXPECT it in return, but I have always tended to expect such. If I could change the rules 'they'(?) wrote, I'd change that one.
I miss a man who gave me so little in comparison with what I placed on his table. I loved and maybe I do still some (been a week and a half), but he should have made a lot of different moves in the long time we've been together and I'm really sick of waiting for something that may never come.
So, I'm moving on, tho' to tell you the truth I don't really know what that is supposed to mean o_o.
I'll bet he'll miss me tho'. And, you girls are the type men will look back on and think 'she was something else'. I really think this.
Well of course there's the deal where you go looking for someone to hurt you because you're used to being hurt. Let's try not do this, huh? Yeah right; not easy. I'm like a magnet for the men who need fixin'.
But, things are changing, changes happen; believe and have faith and we'll change and our lives will follow.
Oh, and Just Me33, when you said 'turn it on and turn it off', I thought to myself, this guy's gotta be another Gemini.(?)
It's so good to be able to come here and talk about this pain in our hearts, and not feel so alone.
If I looked like what I've been eating the last few days, I'd be a chocolate covered potato chip. That comfort food really works well if ya' need to distract.
Speaking of distracting though, don't agree it's the end-all to probs'; think this talking does wonders as well.
5f
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