Posted by Just Me33 on August 29, 2008, at 15:24:09
In reply to Suffering from Breakup...new here....help! (long), posted by Just Me33 on August 27, 2008, at 15:13:56
SUSAN47...SORRY I disappeared! And yes, I am SO VERY lucky to have SUNNY10 as my bestest friend....she is nothing short of amazing...(and i AM a gal!)I am just figuring out how this works....I have been sitting around waiting for an email that says there was a posting....you can read my posting in relationships.
To everyone: Well, as a follow up, I called R last night, he answered immediately and said he was just about to call me....now, he had cut me off from communication with him for two days, which doesn;t seem long to most, but i was dying inside.
Ok, he DID apologize for the recent Jekyl and Hyde routine and said he did love me very much, he is just in way over his head and under stress and cannot find someone else to rent his house and he doesn't want to sell it and he is concerned about finding a job in my state, etc...I told him to take a step back and relax and take some more time, but I am still upset that he went from one extremem to another so quickly. As Sunny10 told me, just guard your heart! so, what now? I love him so much, but this really hurt me for the past week and I don't want to go through it again, but I alos don't want to have a long distance relationship forever! How do I know if he will EVER be ready to move?!
As just an FYI, I do not have access to a computer on nights or weekends, so if I do not reply, that is why...
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