Posted by Jo U.K on February 8, 2007, at 4:12:38
In reply to How do you deal with feeling manipulated?, posted by one woman cine on February 7, 2007, at 8:05:09
It's always so disappointing to find that someone who you thought was a 'good egg' turns out to be a pretty rotten one doesnt it? I also could kick myself when I realise I'm being taken for a ride. Every time it happens, I swear I wont fall for THAT again, but sooner or later, it happens again! Maybe it's an inability to judge character. I just expect and want people to treat me as I treat them. That old ' do as you would be done by'. You know, with honesty etc. Maybe some people see this as a weakness?
I agree, an exit strategy is generally required. Occasionally I work up the nerve to front up to the offending person. That's not easy though is it?
Kind regards
Jo
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