Posted by Dinah on January 1, 2007, at 19:00:42 [reposted on January 1, 2007, at 21:50:14 | original URL]
In reply to Re: Time for a *sex trigger** thread. Hubby/wife stuff, posted by Tamar on January 1, 2007, at 17:56:34
I like those suggestions!
My husband doesn't care for porn, but he does like those instructional videos with real looking people in them. I can't say we often go to the trouble of digging them out and putting them on, but we have done it on occasion.
And the masturbation idea is also a good one. There are things I actually enjoy that allow for orgasm on his part. My therapist says that's all men care about anyway, and while based on my husband's point of view, I'd say that isn't a universal male belief, it does allow for intimacy in a way that I can actually tolerate to enjoy, depending on the activity.
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