Posted by corafree on October 28, 2006, at 17:59:16
In reply to Re: Rainydayman is really Icecreamman! » corafree, posted by Phillipa on October 13, 2006, at 22:11:48
It's fixed P.
Just 'how well' will I ever be? That perfect man may be looking for a woman like the one I was some time ago (Well, u know what I mean.). Things have changed in the 'dating arena'. Men are really checking into women's finances, bags, ... more then ever 'what they can get' out of a marriage. It used to be about love/sex to a man, I believe, and now it is like they want your resume and medical records!
I don't want to be alone anymore. Boo hoo.
All say "I deserve more", but 'who am I now' to expect that? Unbrideled(?) trust is gone. The raising of a voice causes fear in me. Things of value have been taken from me, when if a man would have just asked me, I probably would have given them to him.
A big mistake I made was not asking for spousal support, especially from #3, although #2 also hurt me. What was I thinking? I was too proud! I shouldn't have been too proud. I thought I needed nothing from them, but for them to go away. Anyone reading this, remember this for your sake.
love, cf
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