Posted by Lindenblüte on October 15, 2006, at 22:36:40 [reposted on October 28, 2006, at 0:27:23 | original URL]
In reply to Re: Rainydayman is really Icecreamman! » Phillipa, posted by corafree on October 15, 2006, at 1:10:46
I think it's great that you found a friend that is comfortable talking about abuse stuff with you. That can really be a beautiful thing. It's rare and special.
That doesn't mean that he's the right one for you right now, though.
Try not to make a romance out of a friendship just because you need a "fix-it-up" project. I've done that before. Inevitably, the unhealthy one gets a tiny bit healthier, and the healthy one ends up feeling very exhausted and used. Afterwards, nobody's that healthy.
cora, just remember all you've done to get yourself this far. You're a strong woman, and you deserve a guy who will help you get even stronger.
-Li
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