Posted by corafree on June 26, 2006, at 10:06:20
In reply to Re: Upset Confused! *trigger domestic violence* » corafree, posted by AuntieMel on June 25, 2006, at 11:08:39
I gave 'going alone to the hospital' a good shot, but he managed to stomp that one out 'in front of my son', saying we shouldn't waste gas and should all go together. (I had to go over to their house to p/u my car from my son, so had to be in his presence.)
So here I am w/ my 1-y/o granddaughter, who worships him like everyone seems to, and I was civil.
Oh but the thoughts in my head . . . they were clear and new and different. Hard to explain. I didn't speak them of course.
Yes, my daughter has just been through a traumatic birthing and tonight will be caring for two babies instead of one .. her life changed forever. I love her so much.
He had to go and make I think two to three 'stomach turning' sexual remarks, and there were two incidents that started to trigger anger in him which I/he saw immediately were headed my way ... first time I've seen him recognize that 'he'd made the mistake' .. not me. This occurred tho', only after I very quickly and tactfully pointed it out. It was strange.
Before we left my daughter's room, I offered to pick them up today. I had to stand there and hear my daughter tell me she'd rather he drive them home! (I am on a narcotic because of the injury HE inflicted upon me. Oh, but when I have breakthrough pain and ask someone to drive me to an appt, they say no!)
Ya' know, he had a rap-sheet 8x long before he married me. I have only one incident; a night he was violent and police wanted me to leave the home as my winter-visiting mother was nearby, but my son was a toddler and I didn't want to live him w/ 'him'. The police took me to jail because I touched one of them. (I opened my arms saying 'but I don't want my son to stay w/ my him' and gently touched the officer's shoulders. They threw me on the ground! What a scre*ed up world!)
I couldn't sleep at all last night. I awoke to a nightmare. I must look like I feel!
This morn' I have to go buy a car-seat and take it over to him to put in his car so he can p/u my daughter and new grandson!
All that you've said is good and right, but he's a 'mastermind at entrapment'.
ThanksHon', but dam* I'm tired.
love, cf
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