Posted by Tanzanite on March 5, 2006, at 2:41:29
In reply to is it being selfish or just feeling guilty (long), posted by jazzmine on March 3, 2006, at 17:24:55
First of all, that is what we are here for. And sometimes you will find someone that does understand. I am not sure how you would go about approaching your hubby, but perhaps talking to him and see if he is willing to get some help. My own life has been hell and I have not been doing much, and I want to find a way to get out of this funk I am in. Your husband should try to get out and do something, or he will continue becoming more isolated, more stuck in the situation which is not all his fault but the choices we make can make our problems worse. I will be the one to admit that to you. My hubby and I don't communicate well at all. Actually, it is the same it sounds like as for you. He has never been communicative, and when I try to approach him with things he resorts in defensiveness and anger no matter how calm I am. I have begged, pleaded, talked, cried, and worse being emotionally self destructive because I feel so all alone in this. So, do not feel ashamed or guilty for expressing yourself and feel free to post back to me on here. If you activate babblemail then you can email me. I maybe will set up an email or something elsewhere that I can give to you if you want to keep in contact that way. I just don't want to post my emails here. Peace and Hope you come back.
Tanzanite
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