Posted by Declan on January 19, 2006, at 19:44:24
In reply to You still there? » Declan, posted by Susan47 on January 18, 2006, at 0:27:27
Yeah Hi, I'm still here. I don't know why it changed. Perhaps it was being able to forget my childhood which decades of time and thousands of hours of psychotherapy seemed to accopmplish. And having for my wife a wonderful friend. I'm still physically shy, but I no longer feel that every touch is an effort to control. Now I understand surrender better, find control boring, and all that seems so long ago, which it is, 35 years ago now. I've kinda learned to do what I like.
Declan
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