Posted by sunny10 on November 23, 2005, at 7:42:53
In reply to Re: ..the male libido- where oh where does it hide?, posted by alexandra_k on November 23, 2005, at 0:43:20
I don't think that it's any one thing. There are so many variables in our lives.
A tough spell at work, slight apprehension about being married (or engaged), misunderstanding about "how much sex women want", gee, the list is endless.
Most importantly, I don't think that your men could put a "reason" onto it. So do a strip tease, or invite him into the bathroom while you're in a bubble bath, or buy something sexy to wear for him- stretch your mind; men are visual creatures... look different. Ask him to lend a hand while you're masturbating...
I don't know, try offering him a sexual act you know he enjoys, et cetera...
Sometimes a slump is just a slump and there is no reason for us to despair- just a reason for us to act.
poster:sunny10
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