Posted by alexandra_k on November 23, 2005, at 0:43:20
In reply to Re: ..the male libido- where oh where does it hide? » happyflower, posted by sleepygirl on November 22, 2005, at 21:48:03
uh, have you tried having a frank discussion about it?
it can be hard...
but just tell him that you don't feel like he is really interested and what is up with that???
you could suggest things 'cause it might make it easier for him to agree...
or if he sees you 'thinking the worst' it might be easier for him to tell you the truth.maybe he is on some medication and its not working properly?
maybe... he has contracted an std at some point in the past and is worried about telling you about that?
maybe... he is gay?
maybe... he just has a low drive.i dunno
but i don't think you will find out unless you ask...and i think...
i really do think...
that it would be good to know BEFORE you decide whether or not to marry him...
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