Posted by caraher on October 27, 2005, at 9:11:42
In reply to male/female friendships are hard, posted by happyflower on October 26, 2005, at 21:58:20
> I am trying to open myself up more to people and make friends since therapy. The first person I did, now is messed up. Maybe I should to stick to women friends only. I don't want to cause any problems for anyones marriage. It seems like everyone is leaving me lately. It makes me wonder what is wrong with me.
I just want to address that last part. NOTHING is wrong with you! It sounds like you have (had?) a delightful friendship. Whatever is going on between him and his wife may affect the continuation of that friendship, but that's not because there's anything about *you* that is defective. You are not responsible for someone else's jealousy, or failure to communicate with his wife.
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