Posted by happyflower on October 27, 2005, at 7:19:02
In reply to Re: male/female friendships are hard » happyflower, posted by Tamar on October 27, 2005, at 3:10:08
,> I’m sorry your teacher/friend seems to be pulling away. Have you tried talking to him about it? I don’t think you should ask him whether his wife is jealous, but maybe you could say something like you got the impression his wife didn’t like you and you wondered if you’d done something to offend her… or something like that. Maybe he’ll tell you what’s going on.
Hi Tamar,
We have talked about this and he has told me that his wife is jeolous because she thinks I am too pretty for her DH to resist. We have a very open and honest relationship, so we can talk about stuff like this. I don't know why he didn't tell her I was going. She is also a musican, so you would think she would understand, but I guess she is just feeling insecure about her marraige. I guess if the the shoe was on the other foot, I would be a little jeolous too, so I know where she is coming from. Maybe he will loosen up again. I guess I just have to keep trying to make new friends. Thanks for your advice.>
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