Posted by caraher on October 23, 2005, at 20:03:05
In reply to Re: Don't want to kill the VIBRATOR thread... » fairywings, posted by Tamar on October 23, 2005, at 18:50:15
> So perhaps my ‘imperfections’ aren’t as unattractive to other people as I think they are.
Just to toss in my own viewing habits ;) I like to look at what pleases me, not what displeases me. By contrast, so often women are highly self-critical about their bodies and focus obsessively on whatever they think are their least appealing features. When you do that you're certainly not seeing yourself the way I would see you, and I'd imagine the same goes for how most other people would see you as well.
Having grown up with three sisters and currently married to an... ummm... "outspoken" woman, I'd also like to add that the women I've known have far keener eyes when it comes to spotting "flaws" in other women than I do, and I don't think I'm exceptionally unobservant.
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