Posted by Tamar on October 23, 2005, at 18:50:15
In reply to Re: Don't want to kill the VIBRATOR thread..., posted by fairywings on October 23, 2005, at 18:38:17
> i'm glad you can think of yourself and look at yourself and be kind. i think i tend to focus more on what's attractive about other ppl, but not about me. i don't like my body.
I know. I struggle with it too. And yet when I notice the men I’m attracted to, none of them have ‘perfect’ bodies, but I find them attractive because they are who they are. For example, my husband weighs about 300 pounds but it suits him (he’s also 6’6” and has the biggest feet I’ve ever seen…). So perhaps my ‘imperfections’ aren’t as unattractive to other people as I think they are.
> > I like my breasts...
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> that might be an okay part of me, but not much else.Well, that’s a very good thing! I read recently that it’s one of the first things men notice about women… so if yours are nice you’re off to a flying start!
Tamar
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