Posted by Susan47 on October 20, 2005, at 20:18:31
In reply to Re: Vibrators, (SuperLong, Intimate too) Sigh » Susan47, posted by fairywings on October 19, 2005, at 20:44:19
Well I wouldn't say you're doing Anything wrong, that's too harsh, we are talking about something which is supposed to be pleasurable. Feeling like you're doing something "wrong" just isn't helpful :)
That's what a therapist might say ... maybe you should seek sex therapy, maybe I should seek it, but first I have to have somebody to have sex WITH, you have that at least.. let me know if you figure it out, because getting to that first one can be tough for me, but once I've had it I just kind of don't let go of the whatever it is that got me there in the first place, I don't know. Is the secret to completely relax in between, maybe?
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