Posted by Tamar on August 7, 2005, at 16:29:41
In reply to Re: Question about sexual etiquette » Tamar, posted by Dinah on August 7, 2005, at 16:07:58
> I know that he didn't mean any harm, and that he probably thought it would feel good to me.
> I just wondered whether I had any right to say anything. Too many insecurities in the area, I suppose.
Don't you always have a right to say something if you're not comfortable? I would hope that your husband would understand that you want to engage in sexual activity in a way that's comfortable for you!
> I still haven't said anything. :(
I think most of the responses to your question indicate that many people would find that situation uncomfortable.
Can you remind him of the incident and ask him gently to wake you up for sexual activity? You could suggest that you like it better when you’re fully awake and can respond to his needs, or something like that…
Tamar
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