Posted by Declan on August 1, 2005, at 22:50:01
In reply to Re: Question about sexual etiquette » Dinah, posted by Tamar on July 31, 2005, at 17:46:50
Hey, you said it really well.
It's much more satisfying giving someone real pleasure than getting it yourself. Perhaps the picture of someone else's pleasure seems more solid than our own pleasure feels. There's a whole other dimension to knowing/feeling that you've done that. And no fun in getting it off with someone who's had enough. In fact it makes me feel sad or something for ages.
And as for the men in the morning thing, it's just a good time for us. A lot of men would like to be on the receiving end of attention at that time and extrapolate accordingly.
Declan
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