Posted by Jazzed on June 21, 2005, at 21:53:24
In reply to Re: marriage question, posted by happyflower on June 21, 2005, at 11:57:45
> Can you stay in an emotionless marraige for the sake of your kids. Lead separate lives, like roommates, and find joy in your relationships with others?
Would he be willing to live this way? If so, and if you can be okay with this, it might be worth a try. I don't know how well it would work once you both started seeing others, and that will confuse the kids.
>I hate what divorce does to kids and they would miss their dad so much. I love my husband but he refuses to get therapy or couples counceling, so all I can do is work on myself.
Does he know you're willing to walk if he can't keep up with the changes? Maybe if push came to shove, he'd be willing to get counseling?
>How much is enough?
When you can't take it anymore, and feel you have to leave and get on with your life. You're still young and have so many possibilities. Can you support yourself, and the kids with support?
Jazzy
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