Posted by crazyteresa on June 18, 2005, at 19:24:09
In reply to marriage question, posted by happyflower on June 18, 2005, at 15:29:28
I think we all feel that way sometimes, but for me it's really bad during deeper depression.
I start feeling sorry for myself, I take it out on my husband, we have a fight. The whole time I'm thinking about all those qualities I don't like about him (which are usually the ones that attract them to us to begin with...)
Sure, you could leave and find someone else, but the new will wear off and you'll be right back where you started with the first guy. True love is staying together after that crazy mad love wears off and the monotony of life sets in.
Like everything else, it's a cycle of ups and downs. Some good hot sex (kids out of the house for the night) goes a long way towards starting that cycle on the upswing here!
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