Posted by Susan47 on June 12, 2005, at 14:00:16
In reply to divorce after sobriety, posted by uncle lou on June 12, 2005, at 3:04:39
Could be, that she's using you as the reason, because maybe she doesn't understand it herself. A lot of times we really can't understand ourselves.
And you do make her angry, there might be lots of things about you really annoy her, the same as there's things about her that annoy you. It's not easy living with a spouse at the best of times.
I'm just going to suggest that maybe if you let go of your fear and let her go with love, some of these things may happen; she comes back, with love, or you have a friend, and a co-parent, for life, or maybe you just get back enough good feelings that sometimes, when you see each other, you reminisce about the past. Sometimes, you may even both get lucky :)
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