Posted by Dinah on May 4, 2005, at 9:11:23
If something is left to him, it never gets done. Never. He studies it, he thinks about it. But no tangible results occur.
I'm not talking about housework. I'm talking about vacations, or purchases, or home decisions. While I tend to move, in his opinion, way too quickly. If we decide we need electrical work, I call around, get insurance certificates, call the BBB and have someone within a week.
Which leads him to feel like I take over all the time. And leads me to feel like if I don't take over, I just as well forget it.
No need to reply, really. Just venting.
poster:Dinah
thread:493529
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