Posted by 10derHeart on May 10, 2005, at 10:28:40
In reply to Re: the toilet seat issue has life, eh? » 10derHeart, posted by Larry Hoover on May 10, 2005, at 10:18:02
What you said, is what I was trying to convey to Damos.
That toilet seats, taking out garbage because it's just there and has to go out, etc., turn out being important, precisely because they are symbols. To choose NOT to "make a statement" about what you don't have to do, or can't be made to do if you don't want to, could be a powerful, positive message in a relationship.
You said it better and more directly. No big surprise there.
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