Posted by Larry Hoover on May 5, 2005, at 6:43:44
In reply to Re: Hey, Damos, is this a guy thing generally?? » sunny10, posted by Damos on May 4, 2005, at 17:43:34
> Hmmm, there's nothing quite like being put on the spot is there. Now let me see, how do I answer this. Without risking triggering off the Alpha male hit squad.
I think what Dinah's talking about is probably true of some sub-populations of males, just as is any trait you could select. As to it being an all-male thing, nu-uhhhh.
I'm also a leadership/decision guy. But then again, I am an Aries.
I'm weird in one respect. I'm far more likely to get something done for someone else than I am for myself.
I also am weird in another respect. I wouldn't call in an electrician. I'd learn wiring. I've installed major appliances (the double voltage sort), wired into the box (hot), rewired the furnace to allow me to toggle the fan on and off, because I'd hooked vents to the heatilator in the living room fireplace..... Now that's a guy trait.....
Dinah, if your guy is like that, and you want prompt action, I think it's great you get what you want, when you want it. In your partnership, that's what works for you.
I can see where gg's coming from, too. I think guys are possibly less symbolic than gals. Less likely to want to fix what ain't broke.
I dunno.
What I do know is there's lots of fishes in the sea, of both persuasions (and some indeterminate ones, too, I hear).....so if the fish on your line isn't just right....you know.
Lar
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