Posted by Dinah on April 19, 2005, at 23:31:52
In reply to Re: Sex again. Sigh. » Dinah, posted by Tamar on April 13, 2005, at 20:38:35
If I were to describe my "type" I'd pretty much describe my husband. Blonde, crinkly blue eyes, long fingers, gold arm hair curling over the watch band. He just gets better with age. He's much more attractive now than he was in high school.
He's got a lot of the personality qualities I find sexy too. Integrity, wit, intelligence. He used to use his humor a lot more often than he does now, but he's still a funny guy.
I will say that our marriage functions best with the communications kept at a relatively polite level. When we delve deep, we tend to get in trouble. Because despite our similarities, which tend to be glaring, we have some fundamental differences in emotional styles that would be a problem if we looked closely enough at them.
So I don't think being too honest is a good option for us. My therapist thinks that's sad. I'm not so sure.
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