Posted by partlycloudy on March 25, 2005, at 7:45:36
In reply to Re: AuntieMel et al, I need some advice..., posted by sunny10 on March 24, 2005, at 14:51:26
Sunny, have you consulted a lawyer at all about your financial concerns? During my fiasco we had debt collectors coming after us for a defaulted mortgage (I won't bother with the long sad story except that he hid the ENTIRE thing from me), and I insisted we see a lawyer for advice.
The initial appointment for assessment was free and we were able to settle the debt for a fraction of the entire amount. It was after that I was advised (by another lawyer I saw about starting divorce procedings) to start a new account - in my name, because we had settled the debt already - and start socking my money away.
I ended up, because I had initiated the offer of settling the debt and had acted in good faith, not having any credit problems at all.
I am so sorry for all of what you are going through. I know I am only adressing one small aspect of it, but I wanted to offer you a large and healing hug.
(((((sunnny10))))
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