Posted by shellybelle911 on January 26, 2005, at 3:18:01
In reply to Re: stuck between 2 different people » shellybelle911, posted by Shortelise on January 26, 2005, at 0:13:14
> I think I'd extricate myself from between two people and be me, myself for a while. Not the ham in the sandwich, just the ham :-)
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> I think I'd tell them both that I am feeling up to making any sort of Big Decision. I would tell them if they really care about me, they will respect my need not to be pressured in any way about anything until I indicate that I am ready to think about it.
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> I would say I need a six month break from any discussion at all. During that time, if they want to be friends with you, that's great, but no pressure allowed.
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> How does that sound?
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> Take care of yourself, ok?
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> ShortEThank you so much for the advice...I guess i do need to start putting myself first and quit caring so much what others think...that is my whole problem i always worry about what others think and want to make them happy--even at my own expense...so much so that i don't even know who i am or what i like myself sometimes...scary huh??? I think that this is something that i need to do. I guess i am just scared of ending up alone. thank you so much again for the input...i guess i have alot of healing and a lot of thinking to do here in the future...
michelle
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