Posted by shellybelle911 on January 25, 2005, at 23:48:07
In reply to Re: stuck between 2 different people, posted by sunny10 on January 25, 2005, at 12:52:38
> Sounds to me like you are stuck between 3 people; not 2.
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> And the one you didn't list? You.
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> You mentioned that you just got out of hospital. That makes you automatic priority one.
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> Let BOTH of the boneheads work on their own issues while you work on yours (yes, everyone has them). There is no statute of limitations on relationships. When the time is right for YOU, the right person will be there.
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> That is all my own, non-professional, advice.
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> My last T told me that I would never be with Mr. Right until I didn't need him. She said that I should only be with a guy because I "want" him, not because I "need" him, because it is infinitely rewarding (and, frankly, the only type of relationship worth the work that relationships take!) and the other type is never rewarding in a healthy sense.
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> Hope that helps,
> Sunny10Thank you very much for the advice--I always seem to forget about me and that is my biggest problem i think...I guess you are right i need to get myself together and then just see what happens.
Thanks again,
Michelle
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