Posted by Shortelise on January 26, 2005, at 0:13:14
In reply to stuck between 2 different people, posted by shellybelle911 on January 25, 2005, at 0:26:25
I think I'd extricate myself from between two people and be me, myself for a while. Not the ham in the sandwich, just the ham :-)
I think I'd tell them both that I am feeling up to making any sort of Big Decision. I would tell them if they really care about me, they will respect my need not to be pressured in any way about anything until I indicate that I am ready to think about it.
I would say I need a six month break from any discussion at all. During that time, if they want to be friends with you, that's great, but no pressure allowed.
How does that sound?
Take care of yourself, ok?
ShortE
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