Posted by shellybelle911 on January 25, 2005, at 0:26:25
Let me begin by saying that i am recently divorced and had been seeing someone up until my hospitalization...after i got out i went back to exes home so as not to have to be all alone in my apt day after day...i went back on the understanding that it was not us getting together again--as we have too many unresolved issues--just until i felt healthy enough to be on my own again...but now he wants to try again and i am not ready....i have to work on myself first but he doesn't seem to want to hear that --and he has things to work on if he even wants a chance to try again. My problem here is that i always do what makes everyone else happy at my own expense--i know that now but still cannot seem to help it. I have also been talking to the person i was seeing after my divorce again--he is a really good person and we are good friends now--i don't know what will come out of it. I just know i don't want to end up all alone--i know that I sound like a very weak person, but for once in my life i am trying to do what is right for me. Any input or advice would be very welcome at this point as this is only adding to my other problems and anxiety daily....thanks for listening to me
Michelle
poster:shellybelle911
thread:447194
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