Posted by AdaGrace on December 24, 2004, at 7:47:01
In reply to Re: Re: sounds like resolution » AdaGrace, posted by 64bowtie on December 24, 2004, at 0:36:19
What rips at my heart is the way other siblings act towards him. Especially the one I was closest to in age. I just want to scream "What household did you grow up in, because I was there, and I remember. It was bad, and I know that, but he's our father, and our responsibility as well you should know." It's so very hard, he's so very lonely, and he created most of the problem. People don't realize what they do to their children's souls and how they are affected years afterwards. I often find myself blaming him for the many faults I have, but sometimes I realize the good things he instilled in me. I don't steal, I know what it means to work hard, I take pride in my surroundings, I can mow a mean yard, I can garden to my heart's content, and most of all I can show love to those around me. I'm not afraid to say it or show it and I'm not just talking about my children or my husband. I'm talking about friends, siblings, relation. Sometimes learned from a lack of something makes you even stronger a person because you know what you missed and you strive to give others the opposite.
Ada, happy today, Grace
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