Posted by Gabbix2 on December 16, 2004, at 18:27:27
In reply to Very alone. My story. I dont feel normal, posted by adam canada on December 16, 2004, at 0:08:00
Hi Adam
I agree with Snoozin (of course I usually do agree with Snoozin, Hi sus ! : )
Not all women want macho guys, and I'm not saying that because this is a message board and I'm trying to make you feel better. At 21 it's true, probably many women still go for the bad boy type, but trust me, it doesn't take long and they look for just the qualities you have described.
I know at 21 it can feel like you should have had at least one true love, and depression can make you feel even older than that, but it's true, it's really not that unusual to not have met the right person yet. Your 20's is still so much about discovering yourself. I didn't even begin to be happy until my mid-20's.>I am lonely a lot. Wanting someone to love, take care of, appreciate, someone to be happy with and the greatest joy would be to see them be happy. For your day to light up when you see that beautiful smile in their face. Because that is the most beautiful thing in the world. For the one you love so dearly to be happy and knowing you are happy with them.
What you wrote there was absolutely wonderful and if you feel that way I can *promise* you that you will find someone you love and who feels the same way, maybe not next week, but it will happen.
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