Posted by ron1953 on November 5, 2004, at 8:31:49
In reply to I'm physically shutting out my husband, posted by saw on November 5, 2004, at 0:38:18
Sabrina:
Perhaps a man's point of view may be helpful. Please don't allow your weight to get in the way of your relationship with your husband. I'm in 100% agreement with AdaGrace's comments. When my ex passed 40, she started to put on weight. It did not diminish my desire for her. Our lovemaking continued to be satisfying and marriage-nurturing.
You both need the closeness and security of the marital bed. Please don't give it up.
One more thing - we're divorced but her weight had nothing to do with it.
Ron
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