Posted by stresser on October 27, 2004, at 20:13:36
In reply to Re: my wife just left me....., posted by dazedandconfused on October 26, 2004, at 14:32:23
Hi, I just read your message and I'm am truly sad for you. I feel your pain, because I went through it many years ago. You need to know, and this means alot, that she loves you. My first husband didn't still love me, so the question of us working out wasn't an option. Everyone makes mistakes, over and over, so don't let this get you to where you feel like it's completely over. Have you been to counceling together? I think that can be the biggest help, but you need to find the right therapist. Having read your postings, it seems as if she isn't sure that it's over. That gives me hope for you both. Did you say you had put on weight? Meds. do that to many people, don't let that get you down so far that you don't put forth the effort to make it work with her, if that's what you want. Beauty is soooooo skin deep, and at 42, it means nothing to me in chosing a partner. You seem as if you truly love her and I think maybe she knows that, so give her some time. (that's the hardest part) I'm the type person who wants and immediate answer, a quick fix, and sometimes the BEST for you isn't a quick fix. You ask why, well I do to....I just know that now I am married to a wonderful man (18yrs) and would have never at that time thought I would be. Take a deep breath and try not to panic, we are here to listen and help you through this. Agreed? -L
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