Posted by AdaGrace on October 19, 2004, at 15:50:19
In reply to Re: I Don't Like Him, posted by Miss Honeychurch on October 19, 2004, at 15:10:54
Well, let's see.....when I asked him for a divorce, he became furious and said I would NEVER get the children. When I asked him to leave he began to cry and still refused. When I asked him for a separation he again refused. Therefore, as a result, I got nowhere. I was threatened with losing my children, my home (which by the way I pay the payments on) and everything I have held dear and become familair with for the past 18 years. It would be me leaving. That's it. And I was told that if I left, don't come back. In other words, I would be leaving with the clothes on my back period. Why do I believe this? Because I think he would do that, he wants nothing to do with us being apart and would make my life misserable in the process. If I do divorce, I have to have my ducks in a row beforehand, and as of right now I am not emotionally stable enough to think about what I am going to fix for supper, let alone figure out how to save up the money, do the planning and keep my sanity so I can walk out that door.
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