Posted by Miss Honeychurch on October 19, 2004, at 14:13:50
In reply to I Don't Like Him, posted by AdaGrace on October 19, 2004, at 11:32:03
Ada,
I find that when people get married very young (as you did), as in their early twenties, that they grow apart. My personality is quite changed between 20 and 30, so I think the divorce rate is especially high for people who get married so young.
You ask why you even married him, etc. We see thru diffferent eyes in our twenties. In essence, we grow up between 20 and 30. And it sounds like you and your husband grew up and you now realize you are no longer suited toward eachother.
This is not awful, just a fact of life. My parents were married at age 20 and divorced 10 years later. I think this is very common and nothing to beat yourself up over. I am concerned you are chastizing yourself over and over for marrying your husband. I hope you are not doing this! You are only human!
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