Posted by dazedandconfused on October 15, 2004, at 17:30:49
In reply to Re: We Have Contact, posted by AdaGrace on October 15, 2004, at 17:21:46
Ada,
Keep posting.I don't know why we have to go through these things. It sounds like your relationship was much more serious than mine. Mine really didn't truly care about me...he just used me. Hard to write it out,,,but its true.
I truly believe other people can't make us happy. Its up to us. Sappy, but true. You can't save him,,,or make him happy,,,on a long-term basis. Short term, yes, but not long-term.
I once heard Dr. Phil say that fewer than 5% of relationships that start as affairs are successful in the long term.
Please don't think I am preaching. I am right there with you.
dazed
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