Posted by dazedandconfused on October 15, 2004, at 16:30:29
In reply to We Have Contact, posted by AdaGrace on October 15, 2004, at 11:53:45
Oh Ada Grace,
Why do we have do go through this?My opinion...IGNORE IT. Don't respond. I liken my experience to a wound. The wound can't heal until I quit picking at it. I think what your therapist has been saying is very true. Not to concentrate on this guy or your hubby...but yourself. And I have hoped I could remain friends with my person...but I simply don't have the ability to. Just not a good idea.
Just keep posting on here. Tell us what you would like to tell him in an email. Come here when you get that itch to contact him. It may not feel the same (ecstacy as you described it), but you will feel better in the end.
I should listen to my own advice.
dazed
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