Posted by AdaGrace on October 25, 2004, at 11:55:48
In reply to We are not responsible for other's happyness » AdaGrace, posted by 64bowtie on October 24, 2004, at 11:57:55
Sacrificing one's own self and self esteem to make others happy may sound selfless, but is it really healthy? And what if the other person doesn't know how or care a whit about making that selfless person happy as well? Doesn't it take two to make it work? Or is it simply sufficient to be the selfless one all the time and apply for sainthood later on in the afterlife?
Just my thoughts,
AdaGrace
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