Posted by alesta on October 13, 2004, at 21:59:53
In reply to Why Does It Seem Men Are The Callous Ones?, posted by AdaGrace on October 13, 2004, at 9:28:18
hi adagrace,
i couldn't get through your post in its entirety because i found it so depressing..so i can imagine how you must feel.
try not to make global assumptions here, such as implicating men as the bad guys in relationships. this kind of thinking could become a self-fulfilling prophecy.
you have such an unbelievable amount of negativity right now..and i feel for you..i agree with jane. i think you could work on self-development so as to avoid another bad situation with a man in the future. i am continually working on becoming a better person..with that comes strength and the ability to be on my own if need be. you need to learn to be okay with you right now. i know you're going through a lot of heartache currently, and this may all sound like a bunch of gibberish to you right now, but try and embrace the heartache, not the negative thoughts and feelings. try and stop these negative thoughts in their tracks. negativity attracts negativity. i would take the focus off of men, and place it on yourself. this way no one can let you down. love thyself..:)
take good care,
amy
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