Posted by Miss Honeychurch on September 24, 2004, at 10:25:30
In reply to Re: How can I fall in love with my husband again, posted by AdaGrace on September 24, 2004, at 10:16:07
Ada,
Do you think your husband feels the same way about the marriage? Do you think he is clueless about what has been going on with you? Do you think he knows about the other man?
How old are your kids?
And do you think your husband would be open to couples' therapy? Are you currently in therapy? You mentioned meds, but do you receive any talk therapy?
I was in a simialr situation with another man several years ago. I had such poor self worth that I cringe now looking back on this. I can honestly say I hated my husband (we had only been married 3 years). I started therapy as I could no longer stand myself. Working on my depression and anxiety. My marriage has improved 100 fold. However, my husband knew something was wrong and made it very clear he would do anything to make things better.
What do you think your husband's attitude is?
poster:Miss Honeychurch
thread:394048
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