Posted by ron1953 on September 24, 2004, at 7:48:44
In reply to How can I fall in love with my husband again, posted by AdaGrace on September 23, 2004, at 9:07:37
Ada:
I'd like to respond intelligently to your post but you didn't really provide much in the way of context. I do sense you're carrying a lot of guilt. I was married 30 years and went through what I consider the normal ebbs and flows about my feelings for my wife. Perhaps we forget that our spouse is a growing, changing person, and new discoveries about our mate surprise us when we realize that they're not exactly the same person we thought we married. Some attitude adjustments on my part made all the difference in the world and I fell in love with my wife all over again, more than once.
< I've done some awful things >
What did you do?
< how much I miss someone else >
What's behind this?
Maybe with some clarifying information, I can offer a bit more.
Ron
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