Posted by partlycloudy on September 21, 2004, at 9:33:49
In reply to Re: Huge mess I created » raindrop, posted by saw on September 21, 2004, at 2:09:12
Raindrop, I completely agree with Sabrina. It's fortunate that you aren't married, but you should get some legal advice as well for the financial gifts he made. I would have taken satisfaction for those as well, as payment for withstanding his verbal and emotional abuse.
The other thing to consider is whether you think some couples counselling might help the situation. (I'm just putting that out there as another choice.)
A confrontation about how you feel about him is very important or you'll be tearing yourself apart with guilt. Choose a public place, as Sabrina suggested, in case things escalate.
take care,
pc
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