Posted by Dr. Bob on October 19, 2013, at 23:29:42
In reply to Re: i think..., posted by alexandra_k on October 17, 2013, at 15:48:11
> I've got a mission now: Accmomodation.
> I realized that she had an agenda - of doing a dx assessment.
> i'm not asking her to lie.
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> i'm not asking her to do special favors for me.
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> i'm just asking her to do her f*ck*ng job.
>
> and right from the start when i made it clear that i was asking her to write something in support... she got this smile on her face like i was asking her for favors.Maybe her agenda (what she sees as her job) fits with one agenda of yours, treatment, but you also have another agenda, accommodation. If so, might it be an option to find someone different for that explicit agenda?
Bob
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