Posted by baseball55 on March 20, 2013, at 19:41:20
In reply to Re: Transference with psychiatrist » AMB, posted by Dinah on March 20, 2013, at 8:37:55
> > He said "it's like when you have sex on the third date and then they think it's a relationship, You never said it's a relationship, but they believe what they want to believe".
This and the dating site make me feel like his boundaries are pretty loose and his technique not very well-developed. Transference is painful enough with a skilled therapist. He doesn't sound skilled. Maybe you should look for someone else. I understand it will be painful to leave him, but it won't be as painful as you think. You will recover. It's not like ending an actual romantic relationship. Also, is seeing a male therapist the best thing for you? Or would you be more comfortable with a woman?
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