Posted by Daisym on May 15, 2009, at 0:55:20
In reply to Re: Is this the end of therapy? Long, posted by Tabitha on May 13, 2009, at 12:43:38
You sound a lot like my therapist - while trying hard not to make me feel worse, he sort of says, "we've been through hard stuff before and we made it through." I guess I don't have that confidence in any relationship. I suspect this is from my own parents, who were very withholding (or worse) when I failed to meet their expectations - as well as my divorce. In the later years of my marriage, fights would occur, a period of silence and hurt would ensue, and then we would just move on. Things never got resolved.
But still - the more we talk about it the more confusing it gets. It was my proposal that we just leave it alone for now and see what happens. Perhaps changed forever is the truth of it - but not lost, if that makes sense.
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