Posted by sassyfrancesca on March 6, 2009, at 14:45:42
In reply to Re: Sexual Misconduct/ What my T has said and Done » sassyfrancesca, posted by fleeting flutterby on March 6, 2009, at 14:35:12
>Oh, Flutterby, you are so sweet!
Sassy- I think it was good for you to vent. it must have been kinda hard for you to do..Thankyou, yes it was; I have been holding on to that list for years!!
... with that deep down wish that things could be the way you fantasize them to be, and yet know also that they can't be that way. yes, that is it. When I went to the American Counseling Convention in Hawaii last year, he was there and told me he was looking for me at the dance!
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> If you don't mind me saying-- I think this particular T. is a NUT! He is wacko and doesn't even have a clue! He cares, only to a certain point, what he's done and doing to you-- the more important thing, it seems to me, is that his ego is stroked by your yearning for him.That is what my girlfriend sez.
ugh.... makes me have a bad taste in my mouth. :o(
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> He has put himself and his ego before you...... I'm sorry he's done that..Thankyou!. it's so wrong I can't even find enough bad words to express it.
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> I had an email friend, maybe I've told you before?....Yes, i remember.anyway.... she was married and had a sexual relationship with her T. It messed her up beyond confusion and torment.... she tried to commit suicide... was in ICU for 5 days.
That is so sad; what has happened to her? He should lose his license!
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> I think these kinds of T.s are heartless, selfish messed up sick people in disguise as helpers. I agree!
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> Sassy-- please take a step towards self love and acknowledge what this is doing to you..... you are worth getting REAL help and not from a wolf in sheep disguise.I know that is true. I called another t; will see about making an appointment.
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> I hope I've not said anything that offends,Absolutely not...you've said what I needed to hear.
and also that I haven't said anything against the rules here at babble(I do worry so much about that-- would be devastating for me to be banned!! yikes..... often becomes difficult for me to post as the fear comes me away)
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> best to youThankyou, sweetie!
Hugs, Sassy
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> flutterby-mandy
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