Posted by llurpsienoodle on December 6, 2008, at 20:50:19
In reply to Re: Slow Down!, posted by muffled on December 6, 2008, at 19:52:37
> Luurps, thats interesting bout that prof....weird but kinda cool in a way.
It will be even cooler if he agrees to write me a letter!
> Mebbe I kinda victorian in my sexuality sh*t, but is that so bad???
only bad if it hurts your quality of life
> I know I am pathological to be honest, but just victorian isn't so bad.
I love victorian houses. and corsets, well, not really. just the idea of cleavage up to my chin. that sounds like fun. Now THAT kind of power
I can feel comfortable wielding around men. As long as my chastity belt is locked.
> I thonk some levity is good in T, and I just dunno how your T relationship is.
> But sh*t, I'd be seriously pissed if a T made that comment to me.
> Like I'd proly tell him to take hisself outside and f hisself.Muffled, and you would be justified. Personally, I think my T would respond well to that sentiment.
> But then I not had a T where I talked sex sh*t right?
> My present T is just trying to help me get my scattered pieces together, let alone talk bout sex sh*t.
> But thats just me.It's gonna take some time, once the pieces get assembled and the glue dries, then you can see if the parts still work :)
> Its proly OK for you, but at same time, it DOES seem to bug you some, so mebbe you can tell him to cool it some w/tyhe lockerroom humour....Yeah, it does bug me. Amuses me that he feels he can joke like that, but kind of offensive and childish at the same time. For a couple weeks last year he used the verb f*ck several times, and it was really vulgar. I asked him specifically not to say that word, and he said "well, what do you mean? you say 'f*ck' all the time. Does it bother you?" I explained to him that I say f*ck as an expletive, and he uses it as a verb. Since then he has been more delicate and nuanced when referring to sex. So, I think he is capable, he will just have to be told to exercise restraint. I'll talk to him on Monday.
> Take care,
> Mthanks for your ideas. Hope you have a nice sunset :)
-Ll
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